Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Different hearts, different paths, one God

I have several difficult things that I have to encounter in life as all people do, but one particular thing that stands out is having to let go of certain people in my life. When you start on a different path that people who are close to you refuse to take, those relationships are bound to break. Because those relationships are breaking for God's purposes, it's okay. And while I do want what He wants for me, that means that I may have to be alone for a while-and maybe that's the scary part. However, it leaves me excited to go out and surround myself with other Christians who are filled with the same passion and spirit that I have. People who ALWAYS focus on purpose, not just when they feel like it.

When I get on the phone to talk to girlfriends I no longer gossip and discuss things that could be potentially hurtful to others. I used to listen to the gossip and even request it. And when I was to be an ear for one of my friends, I would give them cliché, worldly advice that ultimately didn't help anyone. Now when I give Godly advice, it falls on deaf ears.

I do want to have a heart to continue to minister to others and not avoid one of God's purposes for my life. This is why I have held on to my long time friendships up to this point. I also want to be able to hear from the Lord when He says “Enough. This season is over.” I’m continuing to do my part, and pray that this can become a conversation that is always intriguing to my loved ones. It’s the most important thing and the only thing that can change a heart.